Dear Me,
It's 8:30 am, the coffee's brewing a symphony of anticipation, and a million things are already swirling in your head. Work deadlines, grocery lists, and the face of your tiny human waiting with open arms after a long day – it's enough to make even the most organized symphony conductor feel like a beginner with a kazoo.
But take a deep breath, mama. You've got this. Today, like every other day, will be a whirlwind, but a beautiful one. Here are a few gentle reminders to tuck away in your pocket for when the tempo starts to pick up:
1. You are enough. Between emails, conference calls, and spilled juice boxes, it's easy to feel stretched thin. But remember, your presence, your love – that's the most important thing to your little one. A bedtime story, a goofy dance in the kitchen, even just a tired smile at the end of the day – these are the moments they hold onto.
2. Perfection is a myth. Don't let the pressure to have it all perfectly polished dim your sparkle. There will be days when dinner is takeout and bath time is a quick splash. But those days won't define you. Embrace the messy moments,the laughter-filled chaos – they're the true essence of motherhood.
3. Forgiveness is for you too. You burnt the toast? Your presentation might need a bit of tweaking? Take a deep breath and let it go. Forgive yourself and move on. The world (and your tiny conductor) won't crumble if things aren't perfect.
4. Prioritize your well-being. You can't pour from an empty cup. Steal a few moments for yourself, even if it's just a quiet cup of coffee before the storm. A walk in nature, a quick phone call to a friend – these little moments of self-care will replenish your energy and make you a better mama.
5. Celebrate the small victories. You made it to work on time with a complementing shoe pair? You tackled a tantrum with grace (or at least a sense of humor)? Give yourself a high five! These small wins deserve recognition too.
Remember, mama, you are strong, capable, and fiercely loved. You are not just navigating a 9-5 symphony, you're conducting a beautiful, messy, and incredible journey called motherhood. So keep your chin up, embrace the chaos, and enjoy the beautiful melody of your little one's laughter.
With love and understanding,
You 🪻
Yes we all are enough ❤️
Loved #2 - I think it's applicable in so many areas of life. Beautifully said (P.S. found you on Reddit!!)